Love And Trouble

LOVE AND TROUBLE

There are many girls like angels today who are in trouble but have blinded  their eyes with a seeming cloak at love unfortunately, there are also some guys who is neck deep in trouble thinking they are in love. These tips would show you the true picture of your relationship.

WHAT TROUBLES

(1)     Your love life is affecting your relationship with the Lord. you love your beloved  more than the Lord. Your Prefer him or her to your creator. You are ready to do anything for your lover irrespective of how it makes God feel. Your prayer life is suffering reading of the bible does not appeal to you and your quite time is dead because you are in love, that is trouble and not love.

(2)     YOUR LOVE LIVE IS AFFECTING YOUR STUDIES.

You can’t concentrate your grade are falling. Your academic is badly affected. You prefer being with your beloved than writing your exam that is trouble and not love.

(3)     YOU LOVE MAKES YOU SIN REGULARLY.

Sexual sin, lies, abortion, stealing is the order of the day. you don’t see anything wrong in stealing your parent or employee’s money to satisfy your lover. You lie regularly just to be with him or her; you have sex and even commit abortion. This is dangerous to your destiny. it is trouble, not love.

(4)     YOUR LOVE LIFE IS AFFECTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR FRIENDS.

Your new found love shouts at your old friend and pals you abandon them and isolate yourself just to be with your new partner. it appears this new partner is the answer to the longing of your soul. you are satisfied with your lover in spite of how others feel that is trouble.

(5)     YOU NEW LOVE LIFE AFFECTS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PERENTS, SIBLING AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS.

 You abandon your family, spend longer time than usual with your lover or even cohabitate. you hate staying with your people because now he or she  is the only one that matters. never mistake this one for love.

(6)     YOU CAN’T INFLUENCE YOUR LOVER ANYTHING HE SAYS IS FINAL.

You are like a slave to him. You can’t advise him, correct him, make him change his mind or influence him. This is simply bondage. You should be able to talk freely to anybody that claims to have you.

(7)     YOU CAN’T CONTROL HER

You are not in charge in the relationship as a man, you must not be a dictator but a lover, nevertheless, but you must be the head in that relationship. you must at least have a level of control over her. a lady who cannot listen to you in courtship will not submit to you n on marriage.

(8)     IT IS ALL ABSENT SEX.

Anytime you are together, all you do is to kiss, cuddle, fondle and have sex this is not love, it is lost  sex is not love and love is not sex if your love life is all about sex this is trouble.

(9)     IT IS ALL ABOUT MONEY.

She becomes more loving end caring wherever there is money. She makes excessively and outrageous demands and becomes moody if you cannot meet her needs. I am afraid, you are not her love but her bank” stop deceiving yourself this is trouble.

(10)   HE NEVER PROPOSES, BUT YOU ARE GOING STEADY

 Don’t  take him serious if he fails to speak his mind no matter how hard he tries to show it, pretend you don’t see it until he says it. You will find your self to blame later if you go ahead with that relationship without proposal.